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I am a straight man who wears butt plugs in public

Yes, I know how weird it sounds, and that is part of why I am writing. Obviously, no one knows I am wearing butt plugs except me, but it bothers me mentally sometimes because I have always felt butt toys with men meant you were gay (or bi). I am not though; I am 100% straight.

I have read up on the male prostate being sorta equivalent to the women’s g-spot, and that does make sense about my interest in having a plug in my ass. I don’t enjoy the regular triangle shaped butt plugs; the only thing I like are the prostate toys that are supposed to apply pressure to the prostate.

Every so often I wonder what other people would think if they knew; but I think everyone goes through that when it comes to their sexual interests and activities. Those are the things we are supposed to keep private anyway right?

Over the last few years, I have bought and tried different butt plugs, or actually prostate toys. I find that since they are all designed different, some thicker, some thinner, some harder, some softer, it took me some time to figure out which ones sends me into prostate heaven. And since someone will wonder, prostate heaven is when you are squeezing your muscle that stops you from peeing, and you can feel the toy shift against your prostate, and liquid leaks from your penis.

I’m not stupid, I don’t wear the butt plugs all the time; I don’t wear it to work, or when I am going through security at the airport. But when I need to run to the corner store, I’ll leave it in. It excites me knowing it is there — maybe that is my naughty side; of course if the people in the store knew, they would think I was a fucking pervert!

Should I worry? Is there a hidden danger to my sex fun?

Paul


Christianne Responds:

Hi Paul

Hidden danger? No, I can’t see any. Personally I wouldn’t want the risk of having butt plugs or any toy in my ass and getting in a car accident. The thought of internal damage from an impact would scare me to death; and the embarrassment of having to explain to the ER what it was would not be worth the pleasure I would get out of wearing in public.

As a women, I don’t have a prostate the same as a man, so I can’t relate to the same feelings. But search the internet, and you will find that prostate toys have become so common among me.

Actually, you will also find that anal play overall, has become very common. Even pegging, in which a woman uses a strap-on to penetrate her male partner’s ass has gained so much popularity, adult stores dedicate more space to pegging related videos, and (smaller) anal toys. Men are learning to enjoy being on the receiving end of anal play.

Anal play doesn’t have anything to do with sexual preferences, so don’t ever let that bother you. It is nothing more than another way to provide pleasure to ourselves.

Of course, I wouldn’t be doing the readers any favors if I don’t mention lube. You need a good quality lube with any type of butt play. If the toy you are using is silicone, do NOT use a silicone lubricant, as it will degrade the toy’s exterior. If it is not a silicone based toy, the choose a good silicone lube.

Water based lubes (and some of the new hybrids) are your best choice for anal play. You can read more about choosing lubes for anal here.

If you want to know more, search “prostate massagers” or “prostate toys“.

Thanks for the comments Paul.

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